Older female creatives with children are inherently selfish.

Or so literature would suggest. I think it's about time we celebrated creativity amongst mothers - young and old - rather than vilifying them for daring to express themselves outside of motherhood.

I was sat having a coffee with my friend this morning and we started discussing our daughters, who we feel are edging far too quickly towards tween/teen years.

We were talking about the relationships we have with them now, and how this might change as they become more independent.

As part of this conversation, I said I sometimes wonder what my daughter wi…