Annie Ridout

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My husband called me 'challenging'.

I challenged him on it.

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Annie Ridout
Feb 08, 2024
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We’re sat in a pub with the three kids, drinking beer and eating crisps, and I decide to explain to my husband why I want to be friends with a particular woman.

I love the way she thinks and our conversations, I say, and I want to remain friends with her. But sometimes, I find her a bit too… serious? A bit challenging.

My husband looks at me and says nothing.

Why are you looking at me like that? I say, knowing I’m not going to like what he says next.

You’re challenging, too, he says.

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